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Weddings at St. Mary's

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"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient,

bearing with one another in love."

- Ephesians 4:2 -

Congratulations on your engagement!

Marriage is one of God's greatest blessings, and we at St. Mary's Church praise Him for this incredible and holy sacrament.


Weddings are a joyful event here at St. Mary's Church!  We are so blessed that you have chosen to start your new life together at our beautiful church.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What is Pre-Cana?
A: Pre-Cana is a marriage preparation program for those who want to have a Catholic wedding.

Q: How can I find a marriage preparation program near me?
A: The Diocesan marriage prep programs can be found at

Q: My clergy person said I need a copy of my Baptismal certificate?
A: Although you may have the original, a current copy is needed. This can be easily obtained through the church you were baptized in. Give them a call and they will mail it to you.

Q: What if the church that has my Baptismal certificate has been closed?
A: All records from parishes within the Albany Diocese are safely transferred when a church has closed. To access your records online, use the RCDA institutional and parish search tools HERE.

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Marriage Timeline

12 MONTHS Prior to Ceremony:

  • Contact St. Mary's Church, where you wish to be married. 

  • Meet with the pastor, deacon, or Sue Wright to select a wedding date and time, as well as discuss the parish requirements for a wedding celebration.

9 MONTHS Prior to Ceremony:

  • Select readings (one from the Old Testament and one from the New Testament and Prayers of the Faithful (Universal Prayer/Intentions)

  • Plan to attend a marriage preparation program (Pre-Cana). Register now.

6 MONTHS Prior to Ceremony:

  • Create your guest list. Design or select and order wedding invitations.

3 MONTHS Prior to Ceremony:

  • Meet with the pastor to discuss decoration requirements, which may include placement and size of floral arrangements, and meet with the music director.

2 MONTHS Prior to Ceremony:

  • Finalize the invitations and ceremony details. Publish a wedding announcement in the church bulletin. Make sure all documentation has been delivered to the pastor, example baptism records. Finalize music and reading choices.


3 to 4 WEEKS Prior to Ceremony:

  • Meet with the pastor to discuss last minute details. Communicate with the music director any last minute changes or music details.


  • Participate with a priest, the music director, and the wedding party in a rehearsal ceremony.  

Contact Us!

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact Gary Patton, Business & Operations Manager.

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